Marriage Ref

So Season 2 of the Marriage Ref premiered Sunday night and I think this show is great. I love that the fights are not serious but are over STUPID stuff that normal people fight about….it cracks me UP! I mean who doesn’t think in the back of their during a fight “man if someone could hear this they would say I am right”?!? Here is a peak at this season………

SO I was thinking this morning about a stupid fight Matt and I have all the time and maybe you can weigh in? (I had to narrow it down) The dishwasher fight is a close second to…….drumroll please…….. The “Is it a nag if you can’t remember to do anything” fight? Ok………
Matts Side: 
If you tell me to do “insert whatever here” one more time then I just won’t do it on purpose to teach you a lesson. He will then say “I will do it I swear”. Then fast forward to the next day and when I ask did you do it he will then say “You didn’t remind me”
My Side:
I will say “Matt don’t forget to “insert here””………hours later usually before I go to bed I will say “Matt don’t forget” and then he will yell. So I go to bed and the next morning I will ask if he did what I asked and he will then say “you didn’t remind me”

SOO……..If I remind him I nag BUT BUT if I say nothing he says I didn’t remind him? URGH! I mean this kills me and makes steam come out of my ears! You can’t have it both ways?!?! Hilarious huh?
So I am the winner here right????? What I wouldn’t give for a billboard that says so.
NOW I ask you what is something stupid you and your husband fight about? And Go…


  1. Anonymous
    June 28, 2011 / 3:26 pm

    You just have to look at things in perspective. There may be things that he does and is the only one who does it and vice versa. My wife reminds me that marriage is a partnership between two people and if i have to constantly remind her to do something over and over again, i could have probably done it in the time i spent nagging. Just make a list, stick it on the fridge. He will still see it and be reminded, but not by you.

  2. The Burtons
    June 28, 2011 / 5:34 pm

    OMG this is GREAT! I say you win hands down 🙂 Our dumbest fight is probably over what to eat! Ha! I feel like I ALWAYS decide what we have for dinner so sometimes I make him choose but he will keep saying "what are you in the mood for" and puts in back on me….stupid I know but drives me NUTS that he wont' decide!! And sometimes nothing sounds good so I just want him to pick…we end up getting super annoyed at each other and usually dinners are silent after that 🙂

  3. Becky
    June 28, 2011 / 6:15 pm

    Our fight used to be my shoes…you see, I take them as I am walking in the door. That can happen in front of the door, in the middle of the living room floor, by the couch, by the toilet…anywhere…And I am not the best of picking them up at another time. He used to throw them at me and get made if they weren't put away, but he figured out that after 19 years together, I am not gonna change…so now, when he sees my shoes out of place, he laughs and thinks about how he loves even with all my faults.(BTW…I agree that you are right. He is putting you in an impossible position.)

  4. Anonymous
    June 29, 2011 / 2:21 pm

    I have the remind/nag thing w/ my Husband too. I decided to send it as an appointment to his phone if he asks me to remind him. After I do that, if he dismisses it or ignores it, it's on him. I just say, "I sent it to your calendar." BACK ON HIM!! 🙂

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