6th Love Language

SO this blog post came to me yesterday when I oddly enough had 2 conversations with great friends about how my Love Language is FOOD! (thanks ladies) And they are so right can’t believe I didn’t see it before, I mean my actual Love Language is Gifts and for me cooking/baking is a gift to people I care for. Like for instance last night I made some green sugar cookies for JH and thought nothing of it, it was too simple to matter …I just wanted to bring something to share but I unintentionally do it to show these girls that I care. The same can be said with Matt……the ONLY night we eat together a meal I cook is Sunday with his work schedule, so when Matt says “oh don’t cook lets do something easy” what he isn’t realizing is that I do it to show him I love him. I go out of my way every Sunday to make something great and a dessert to boot!  Now, let me say I do not do anything cooking/baking for recognition or thanks…I do it because I want to. I also do it because it is something I am good at, something I can give people and I do it because it is natural to me. I just wanted to share this with you…. is there something you do that is a sort of Love Language for you?


  1. Anonymous
    March 15, 2011 / 2:28 pm

    My love language, like yours, is also cooking along with making hand made cards. Even though most people receive them and then toss them in the trash, I hope they realize that I took the time to make them a unique card to show my love and appreciation for them in my life. Keep cooking and spreading the love!!!

  2. Anonymous
    March 16, 2011 / 5:24 am

    i love food! 🙂

  3. Becky
    March 18, 2011 / 3:59 pm

    OMG! I totally agree. You speak very loudly through food. Acts of Service is a great love language. Also, I think it connects with Quality Time since you share a meal with Matt and you get to spend time together.Both Acts of Service and Quality Time are my langauges as well.

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